Joy.
The name of a woman I had never heard of, and upon watching her story,
will never forget. This film by David O. Russell is based on the story
of Joy Mangano, doyenne of QVC. I was hoping the film would be joyful,
and was pleased that it had a happy ending. It moved slowly at first, very
slowly, and is told partially from the perspective of Mimi, Joy’s
devoted maternal grandmother (Diane Ladd). The film is rated PG-13 for
brief strong language.
Starring
Jennifer Lawrence, Robert de Niro, Isabella Rossellini, and Bradley
Cooper, the film held a promise of greatness. I would call it a quiet
film, however, with subtle performances, especially from Jennifer
Lawrence who plays Joy, and Bradley Cooper as Neil Walker. Even dialogue
is delivered in whispers at times, and it serves up the message of a
woman who would not give up.
Having just seen this the day after The Big Short,
a film that just left me angry (see previous review), I was once again
inspired. Good things do happen to people providing they don’t give up,
don’t allow themselves to be walked on, and believe in themselves.
It
helps to be smart, finish high school, and be determined. How many
women who could go on to college don’t, because they fall for a singing,
dancing lothario who sweeps them off their feet, and before they know
it, they have kids and a nowhere life. Joy didn’t let that stop her. Her
role models weren’t very positive, like her mother who has given up and
does nothing all day long but watch soap operas.
For
all of you complainers out there saying, “If only I had (fill in the
blank), then things would be different.” Don’t wait for a role model, be
your own role model. Seek out those who can help you fulfill that dream
you’ve buried deep within thinking you can’t have it now that you’re a
mom, caretaker, breadwinner, you name it.
I saw Jennifer Lawrence in her two other Golden Globe winning roles with David O. Russell, Silver Linings Playbook (for which she also won the Academy Award) and American Hustle. But I was her fan beginning with Winter’s Bone,
where she played a strong teenager caring for her two younger siblings,
taking on that responsibility from her absent parents. She displayed a
quiet intensity for that role, as she does for this Academy Award
nominated performance. In this film as Joy, she is so consistent in
playing the character, that we see glimmers of who she will become, we
watch the integrity with which she approaches her life, all leading us
on to the older, wiser Joy.
But she was wise all along. Go see
this film (and be patient; remember I said it is slow in the
beginning), especially if you are a woman who has a dream longing to
burst out. Joy may be just the inspiration you need to push you to take
that first step.