The Big Sick

The Big Sick is a semi autobiographical film written by stand up comedian Kumail Nanjiani and his wife Emily Gordon. The film is rated R for language including some sexual references. The Big Sick received an Academy Award nomination for Best Original Screenplay, a well-deserved honor.

Kumail (Kumail Nanjiani) is a Pakistani man driving for Uber in Chicago and doing stand up comedy at night. He has a close knit family, direct from Pakistan, and a circle of comedian friends. He meets Emily (Zoe Kazan) one night at the comedy club, and they are quickly attracted to one another.

Kumail is reluctant to tell his parents that he is dating a white woman, as they are intent on marrying him off in an arranged marriage that is the Pakistani way. Kumail wants nothing to do with this, not even before he has met Emily. Despite their growing affection for each other, Emily realizes that Kumail will not be in her future plans, as he simply cannot see himself ever introducing her to his family.

A turn for the worse occurs when Emily falls ill and is hospitalized. Her condition is very grave and she is placed in a medically induced coma. Kumail was there when this all occurred, and summons her parents to Chicago.

Terry (Ray Romano) and Beth (Holly Hunter) have heard all about Kumail from their daughter, who apparently keeps nothing from them. They are initially mistrustful and dismissive of Kumail, but he sticks around, realizing that he deeply cares for Emily and cannot leave her when possibly at the verge of death.

The three develop some respect for one another as their vigil continues, and eventually Emily’s parents disclose all sorts of intimate details of their life to the captive Kumail. Ray Romano and Holly Hunter are well cast for their roles as the distraught parents not knowing when their daughter may make a recovery and be healed.

The film reminded me of My Big Fat Greek Wedding in that there are cultural differences between the families depicted within both films. Both were created and filmed on fairly low budgets, and both did fantastically well financially at the box office. These little films, based on the realities of families from different cultures, resulted in big draws for moviegoers who want real stories about really serious issues, but delivered with some comedy now and then for a breath of fresh air.

I really liked this film. It held a taunt line between the scariness of Emily’s mysterious illness, comedic moments (as a crisis tends to make people kind of crazy), and really heart wrenching drama between Kumail and his parents.

Kumail is particularly aggrieved at the prospects of his family disowning him should he not toe the line and marry a woman who is also Pakistani. How he makes his decision, and whether Emily will live through her illness are something you will have to see for yourselves. I highly recommend The Big Sick. Have a tissue handy.