X is for SeX,
Lies, and Videotape, a film from 1989. It was nominated for Best Original Screenplay
at the Academy Awards. Written by Steven Soderbergh, it lost to Dead Poets Society that year. If you’re
an intelligent person who is not afraid of sensitive subjects, you may enjoy
this finely acted film. This is an adults only movie, and is rated R. There
isn’t much sexual activity in the film, but there is a lot of talk about sex. It’s
a morality tale about double standards and the secrets that intimates keep from
one another.
Ann Mullany (Andie MacDowell) lives with her husband John (Peter
Gallagher) in what seems to be an average sized city in Louisiana. Ann’s sister
Cynthia Bishop (Laura San Giacomo) lives nearby, and works as a bartender. The two
sisters are polar opposites: Ann a repressed housewife, and Cynthia a free
spirit.
John is an attorney, an adulterer, and a liar (like some
members of Congress). His friend from college, Graham Dalton (James Spader),
comes for a visit and is the catalyst for many changes within this strange
family.
John is having an affair with Cynthia. Ann is in therapy and
discloses to her shrink the details of her seemingly dying relationship with her
husband. Graham has a strange hobby being an amateur filmmaker of sorts. He
interviews women, not just about anything, but about their sexual histories. It
all shakes loose when Cynthia introduces herself to Graham, and he videotapes
her. Secrets should be thrown into the title of the film as well as lies, as
there are plenty of clandestine thoughts and actions going on.
This is an interesting film if you enjoy stories about the
human psyche. It’s almost as if Graham is a psychologist, only in a very
different manner, encouraging people to talk about their innermost thoughts and
feelings and about subjects they’d never discuss with any of their friends or
family. He’s like a therapist, just doesn’t tell the women he interviews what to
do, and shrinks sometimes tell their clients what to do. What I found
interesting about Graham is that he shows such unconditional positive regard
for the women and their stories. His motivations are questionable, but I
wondered if the women’s intimate partners would be so accepting if they told
the truth like they do with Graham.
Sex, Lies, and
Videotape was directed by Steven Soderbergh, and is a groundbreaking indie
film. The actors all do a great job with their roles. Peter Gallagher went on
to star in the TV series, The O. C.,
one of my favorites, and Laura San Giacomo played Vivian’s best friend and
fellow hooker in Pretty Woman, not to
mention her role in the TV series, Just
Shoot Me. Andie MacDowell has had a full acting career. One of my favorite
films of hers is Groundhog Day, all
sweetness and light, kind of like her role in this film.
Have you watched Sex,
Lies, and Videotape? What did you think?